Insincere

From young I have been taught never to judge nor go into tiny bits of every details before helping.

When a sick person need a ride, give it with sincerity.
When an injure person need of medical assistance, give it with sincerity.
When someone is deprived of food, give it with sincerity.
When someone need a helping hand, give it with sincerity.

So when I was approached to give location to 3 families in need during this crisis, I gave it with sincerity.
But when the person came without food but instead check the whole house, asking for every details and background even though medical cards were given, I find it disgusting.
Whether a person has a roof under her/his head it does not concern the person who is not sincere.
Why demand to know why the sick are not send away to a home?
Why ask a person who can hardly walk where she works and why she did not go to work?
Why ask a person in need whether she got saving?
Why ask a person in need again and again the house is under whose name even though she was told more than 4 times it belongs to 3 siblings?
Why demand to know why the other siblings are not giving a helping to the one in need, even though the question has been answered more than 8 times?

Every family has their own problem.  But the person who said she can help does not understand when children do not care for their parents or siblings fight over a house left by their dead father or why siblings do not look for out for each other because she has never gone through that path.

I felt disgusted and left because I knew she was not sincere in helping.

A sincere person would have brought food and drinks even without a full investigation into every detail of a person in need, especially in this crisis when a person has no means of getting transport nor income for food.

I believe she is from the church and only looking for needy people who are willing to follow Christ/Jesus.

WHAT A WASTE OF MY TIME.